persuasive-socialising

 life skills, learning from others

mental capability, confidence, team-work

become more popular and likeable, admirable

Introverts, extroverts, whatever your preference it's clear to us all that socialising is imperative for survival in this society. No one can learn important life skills from others, build teamwork skills and confidence or even make special memories when they are cooped up in their house all alone. With practice and in the right crowd even the most meek of people will see that socialising benefits them. So get out there-learn, talk, have fun! Turns out just spending time with others will teach you more about life than school or reading ever will. 

It's no surprise that socialising makes you subconsciously learn from others' morals or values, and you can indefinitely use this to your advantage. With everyone on Earth being raised by different parents with different experiences, you can learn more about life just by talking with others. What if you didn't know how to practice self defense against an assaulter? If you had a friend who could teach you the best way to defend yourself, and even gain some experience by practicing with them, you're all set and ready. Getting jobs, partners, achieving dreams-most people would have never accomplished these if it weren't for socialising with experienced people of the trade.

Not only can you utilise skills learnt from others in your daily life, but you can also obtain necessary traits from socialising that help you become a better person. When talking with others you practice becoming better at socialising, including others in the conversation, and learning how to work with them. Practice makes perfect, and by segregating yourself you'll never be able to gain progress. You could never be confident in yourself or your abilities. Socialising, in itself, is a way to make you improve, a way to make you be happier, instead of thinking it's doing a favour for others. 

And those with good interacting skills, from inclusion to understanding others, are always admired. After all, since they can make others feel validated and feel like they really being something to the group, others would want to be like them! The more you interact, the more skills you gain and the more people will look up to you for that. You'll be making friends in no time! Set a good example. If you can reach out to others the best thing you could do is help them become better people and role models following in your footsteps.

So next time you dread of catching up with somebody, think of all the good things that come out of it. You get to make someone's day. You get to learn from someone else, and even teach them some new things yourself. You'll practice the art of confidence and all those traits that will help daily life get easier, step by step. And best of all-when becoming experienced and admirable due to all this socialising, people will strive to become like you. A better person.